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Background
to the Research
- Groups and organisations
providing services to victims and survivors of the NI conflict agreed
the need to address issues associated with young people and the 'ripple'
of 'intergenerational effects' of the conflict.
- Barnardo's decided
to pilot work with parents/carers in areas most affected by conflict,
on issues directly and indirectly arising from the conflict. The work
came under the remit of the Victim's Unit of the First and Deputy
First Minister.
Research Approach
- Hermann's (1992)
definition of trauma was used: 'the responses to trauma are best understood
as a spectrum of conditions, rather than a single disorder'
- Two groups of
women were involved. All were from working-class interface communities
(Protestant-Unionist-Loyalist and Catholic-Nationalist-republican),
had experienced traumatic events in the company of their children,
had had some support in the immediate aftermath, and had the capacity
to protect their children called into question.
Main Findings
- The parents
in each group expressed similar needs: to regain a sense of safety,
to be able to talk to their children and help them feel safe, to learn
more about what had happened to them, to make their community a safer
place, to 'move on' and regain a sense of hope and trust, and to be
able to help children and young people come to terms with political
events and problems.
- Parents identified
what they wanted from the group work: to develop skills to support
recovery, to know what trauma was and how to recognize it in themselves
or their children, and to get help regarding health concerns.
- Both groups
wanted to 'move on', but some felt unable at that time to do so by
working within the group.
- The parents
acknowledged that they could not discuss or engage with their children
following events, if they failed to recognize how they themselves
changed and how they were living with the effects of their experiences.
- At a personal
level, group A described the work as very useful, especially learning
abut the impact of trauma on children, while group B also commented
on these benefits, and being more able to support the children. At
a community level, group A were disappointed that their community
doesn't stick together, while group B described the work as leading
to better preparation for the community.
- Effective work
was identified by the willingness of the participants, which was evident
from various factors, such as participants taking care of themselves
and others, making connections between their own and their children's
responses, and using the group as a resource.
- The key learning
from the work with both groups is as follows:
- The parents,
children, families and communities have been deeply affected.
- Restoring
a sense of safety is the parents' priority for themselves, their
children, families, and the wider community.
- Parents
are usually best placed to support their children in the long
run.
- Trauma recovery
can only progress alongside a strong social and political movement
for human rights.
- Trauma recovery
is central to peace building.
- Group work
is an important counter to the isolation imposed by trauma.
Conclusion
- In order to
develop the resilience of children, young people, families and communities,
there is a need to bear witness - to recognize, acknowledge and address
the impacts of conflict - and to develop skills that will transform
relationships and structure.
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