Year: 2003
Module:Cross Community Contact
Variable:FRNDREL - comments

If response to PROTCATH is 'Protestant community' or 'Catholic community' ...
Thinking about your close friends, how many friends do you have from the other main religious community?

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There are some people that won't mix with Protestants, and many people that wouldn't mind but are afraid to say [they do] because they are afraid of what other people will think and say. Me personally I will mix with anyone. I have a caravan where we go a lot and socialise most. Most of my mates are Protestants and we get along fine. They're just the same as me but believe different things but that should not stop a friendship.

I don't have much to say, but I think if everyone could just get along and respect each other as equals these problems wouldn't be happening. Personally, I enjoy the company of others and I don't think of them for a split second as being a part of a religion but simply as my friends! JUST GROW UP!

[…] I also go to a mixed school and I have a mixed group of friends, male and female, Catholic and Protestant, and none of us have problems with the others religion. There are occasional disagreements but they are easily overcome. This is how I feel the community relations in N. Ireland going in the future, people from different communities will get over their differences and learn to live in harmony.

Personally the Catholic people I have been in contact with are no different that the Protestant ones and are good friends of mine but there are some Catholics and Protestants who make me feel threatened and unwelcome. These people wouldn't think twice about spending time with people of a different religion but if they did maybe they would get a true picture of what they are like. I know this as I used to have friends from my all Protestant school that were very anti catholic, which I am not. After the 11+ I went to a mixed school and they went to all protestant schools and now we have very different views.

Everything goes back to the past. To the troubles and to what happened 100 years ago. I think it's silly for you parents to stop you having friends from a different religious background.

I think all people are the same and everyone should treat other people with respect, no matter what religion. Half of my friends, approx, are of a different religion and we all get on fine, but I think that may be due to where I live. Therefore I think that if I lived in Belfast it would be very different! All the fighting and conflict between religions is a waste of time and innocent lives!

[…] If you walk into a different community you will get beat up or bricks will be thrown at you. I just wish it will end soon because I have mates that live in other communities and I can't go to them because I am afraid of walking there. I would like to make friends with other communities and work with them.

[…] My best friend is a Protestant and I don't see any point in the political stuff because we are all human beings at the end of the day.

I have some friends who are Protestants but the reason why I would like to live in a mixed area is because some Protestants can be bitter.

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